Hey readers! I’m terribly sorry that I haven’t updated here since November, but basically my final semester of college usurped my life and up until this past week it was just nonstop studying and papers! However I am FINALLY done and have thus completed my degree. Now I have plenty of time to write for the things I love, more presently Hey Arnold! On to today’s topic!

Arnold’s Christmas

Season 1 Episode 20

Arnold's Christmas Title Screen

I understand that I’m jumping ahead and not following the original plan of going episode by episode in order of air date. However it is the holidays and this seems like the perfect episode to critique at this time. This episode aired on December 14, 1996 and was the first and only Christmas themed episode produced for Hey Arnold. While many cartoon and children’s shows took the easy route for their Christmas episode plots, such as having the main characters assist Santa and/or attempt to save Christmas, Hey Arnold does something completely out of the ordinary. Instead of taking the easy way out, Hey Arnold faces real world issues and forces its characters to learn some difficult lessons regarding reality and themselves. The episode is notable as it never really mentions Santa and the only Christmas carol we hear sung is part of the chorus of Jingle Bells as sung by Olga, Miriam, and Bob Pataki. This episode is a classic holiday cartoon and one that continues to cause even the most stoic of us to shed a few tears at its beauty, heart, and love.

Episode Synopsis

The episode opens up on Phoebe and Helga sharing a conversation as they walk through Hillwood. This conversation enlightens us to their personal views of the Christmas holiday. Helga believes it’s all about material possessions and getting the flashiest thing possible while Phoebe believes its all about giving and sharing. Helga shoots Phoebe down and expresses her strong desire for Nancy Spumoni snow boots, the must have Christmas gift that is sold out in the entire city.

Helga stares at some Nancy Spumoni snow boots.

Helga's desire for the Nancy Spumoni snow boots is almost matched by her desire for a certain someone...

Meanwhile Arnold is out with Gerald, who is finishing some last minute Christmas present shopping for his family. After Arnold learns that Gerald got everyone in his family a tie, including his little sister Timberly, Arnold tells Gerald that Christmas is about showing your loved ones how much you care about them and that a gift should be unique for the person. Gerald understands and changes up his gift giving plans, to include getting a toy for Timberly instead of the tie. They each go their own way for the day and after Arnold passes by Helga, she launches into one of her personal soliloquies about him, deciding that she must find a big flashy gift for him so that he will fall for her. Notably, Brainy does not show up during this.

Rather than Brainy showing up, Helga just gets splashed with mud. Maybe he was on vacation?

The scene then cuts to Mr. Hyunh arriving back to the Sunset Arms, but before he enters he turns around thinking he heard a female voice call out for him. Inside Secret Santa assignments are taking place and after an initial corruption of the drawing where everyone gets Oskar, Arnold ends up with Mr. Hyunh. He expresses his lack of knowledge about Mr. Hyunh to Gerald the next day, who advises him to go and talk to Mr. Hyunh to see what he would like for Christmas.

Through this visit, Arnold learns that Mr. Hyunh has a daughter, Mai, that is currently missing. Back when he was younger, he lived in a country that was being torn apart by a war. Fearing for his daughter’s safety, he fled to the US embassy and attempted to get him and his daughter on one of the helicopters departing the area. When he was informed that there was only room for one more on the helicopter, he gave his daughter up to the soldier who yelled to him that he would bring Mai to Hillwood. Mr. Hyunh eventually was able to get to Hillwood and has spent over twenty years searching for his daughter in vain. This story causes Arnold to decide to attempt to find Mr. Hyunh’s daughter for Christmas.

Mr. Hyunh decides to give his daughter, Mai, up in order to secure her safety from the war.

Arnold and Gerald go the next day to visit Mr. Bailey at the Federal Office of Information. Initially, Mr. Bailey refuses to help them find Mai, but after they offer to do his last minute Christmas shopping for him, he agrees to help as long as they get everything on the list.

Helga is doing some last minute shopping herself as she is trying to find Arnold a fantastic Christmas present. She finally finds one that may just do a trick, a flashy new computer game. However after she runs into Arnold and Gerald and shows them the item, they comment on how it just seems like she’s trying to impress the recipient with how expensive it is. This run in leads to Helga discovering Mr. Bailey’s Christmas shopping list and she sees Nancy Spumoni snow boots listed. Intrigued, she secretly follows the boys for the rest of the day in their failed quest to retrieve the snow boots.

After searching nearly every store in the city, Arnold and Gerald return to Mr. Bailey without the snow boots in hand. Even though they got everything else on his list, Mr. Bailey refuses to help them as they did not get the snow boots his daughter wanted. Dejected, Arnold and Gerald leave and sit on a bench, where Arnold expresses his sadness over the fact that he failed to reunite Mr. Hyunh and Mai all because he couldn’t find a pair of Nancy Spumoni snow boots. Helga overhears this and realizes exactly what Arnold wants. This leaves her downtrodden as well as she doesn’t believe she can give him what he wants.

Once she arrives home, her mother, Miriam, notices Helga’s sadness and decides to let her open a Christmas present early. Helga opens the gift and finds that they are Nancy Spumoni snow boots. Exhilirated by the fact that her mother actually got her the one thing she wanted, Helga hugs her mother, yanks the snow boots on, and dashes outside where she dances joyfully in the snow. It is during this dance that Mr. Bailey’s Christmas list flies out of her jacket pocket, reminding her that now she has the ability to give Arnold his Christmas miracle and posing a moral dilemma. After several minutes of mulling over her options, Helga reaches her decision.

Helga experiences a moral dilemma when she receives the one thing that she needs to get Arnold what he wants.

As Mr. Bailey leaves his office for the night, Helga races up to him and shoves the snow boots in his arms while yelling about how they need to go back inside and find Mai. Mr. Bailey refuses, stating that he is tired and wants to go home to spend Christmas Eve with his family. Seeing this, Helga appeals to him explaining that he can either leave now and kill Arnold’s belief in miracles or go back into the office with her to search for Mai.

The next morning at Sunset Arms, Gerald arrives to a still depressed Arnold watching the boarders and his grandparents celebrate Christmas. Arnold didn’t even both getting Mr. Hyunh a different gift. After all the gifts have been opened, the doorbell rings which Grandpa Phil goes to answer. He returns with Mai who sees Mr. Hyunh by the fire and calls to him with the same voice heard earlier in the episode. He turns and is stunned to find her there. They reunite in a hug as everyone else looks on stunned, but happy. No one is more stunned however than Arnold, who tries to figure out how the reuniting was possible. Gerald tells him to leave it as a miracle and notes that Arnold may have a Christmas angel looking out for him. It is then shown that Helga is standing outside the Sunset Arms with a peaceful smile. The episode closes as Helga whispers, “Merry Christmas, Arnold.”

Mr. Hyunh and Mai end up getting reunited, leading to a happy Christmas for all.

Reality Strikes

The first main thing that really stands out in this episode is just how much real life is thrown in. Mr. Hyunh’s experiences with the war is something that many people experienced in real life. It is presumed that Mr. Hyunh was talking about the Vietnam War, based on his story and the fact that he says he is from Vietnam in the episode, “Snow”. Furthermore, the event that occurs where he gives up Mai can logically be assumed to be happening during the Fall of Saigon around 1975. In the Fall of Saigon, many South Vietnamese civilians vied for limited spaces on the helicopters that were evacuating people as they feared that once the North Vietnamese took over the city, they would be considered traitors and possibly killed. These helicopters were even evacuated from the US Embassy, which is where Mr. Hyunh got through at as seen by the US flag as he runs through to the building.

Mr. Hyunh manages to get Mai out of Vietnam by helicopter at the US Embassy during the Fall of Saigon.

Showing this war in a cartoon meant for kids and exposing them to the fact that war tears families apart was a brave and stunning move. Children watching the show had to learn the harsh reality that war is not pretty and is in fact something that we have dealt and continue to deal with today.

The other major thing that is shown that is very real is the fact that Arnold fails in his quest to reunite Mai and Mr. Hyunh. Children are taught to believe that anything is possible with hard work. What they fail to understand and what isn’t mentioned as much as it should be is that there will be times where you fail in what you attempt. However that is okay and the world does move on. Arnold was lucky to have his Christmas angel.

Finally, although a minor correlation it is worth noting that the fact that Nancy Spumoni snow boots were the must have gift was a direct play on our society’s yearly obsession with a certain toy and/or item. That particular year it was Tickle Me Elmo, which went for much money on auctions and private sales due to the fact that it was nearly impossible to find. Parents went to extremes to secure the toy for their child, just like Miriam waited 18 hours in line to get Helga the Nancy Spumoni snow boots. Helga at the beginning of the episode is a perfect image of the commercialism that has degraded Christmas to a mere sport for many people. Too many people have forgotten the true meaning of the holiday, and this episode puts that back into perspective.

Breaking Points

This episode also marked key breaking points for Helga and Arnold. If Mr. Hyunh and Mai had not been reunited for Christmas, Arnold would have lost his belief in miracles and would have probably experienced a major personality shift. He probably would have lost his optimism and this loss of belief in miracles could have caused a downward spiral for him.

Helga giving her snow boots up in order to get Arnold his miracle saved his world view.

In the sense of Helga, this episode marked a major shift in her beliefs. At the start of the episode Helga was shown as very materialistic, believing that the way to Arnold’s heart was through a flashy present. However through the course of the episode she learns the true meaning of the holidays, and through that the true meaning of love. She learns that love is caring for someone else more than yourself and that the holidays are an important time to give to someone and show them how much you care.

Helga learns the true meaning of Christmas and love by giving Arnold his miracle.

Boss Quotes Regarding Christmas Meaning

“Christmas is about giving and cheer, family and friends, holiday spirit!” -Phoebe

“Christmas is about presents! It’s about getting as much stuff as you can possibly get! It’s about money and flash! It’s about shopping like a barbarian! It’s about getting your’s before the other guy gets his!” -Helga

“‘Cause Christmas is special. It’s about showing the people you’re close to that you really care about them. When you give somebody a present, it should be unique.”     -Arnold

“At night I used to dream about our future together. To watch Mai grow up and go to school. To see her be happy.” -Mr. Hyunh

“Then I had to make the most difficult decision of my life. I had to do the best thing for Mai. I knew that if I gave Mai to the soldier he would take care of her. He would find a home for her and then as soon as I could I would get out of the country and find her again.” -Mr. Hyunh

“Maybe, but what better time for a miracle than Christmas?! Isn’t that what Christmas is really about?” -Arnold

“Arnold will be overwhelmed. On Christmas morn he will unwrap my gift. Hiis little heart will fill with joy! His little eyes will find the attached tag “To Arnold. From Helga.” and his uniquely football shaped head will fill with thoughts about me, Helga Pataki! And perhaps, then those same thoughts will lead him to feel the same admiration and-dare I say it?- love for me that I have so longed and secretly harbored for him! This truly must be the meaning of Christmas.” -Helga

“I needed a miracle I guess. Just couldn’t get one.” -Arnold

“Can’t you see?! It’s not about snow boots! It’s not about flashy, expensive presents or getting yours before the other guy gets his. It’s about showing people you really care about them and most of all it’s about a funny little football headed kid with a good heart, but no sense of reality whose entire world view is at stake!” -Helga

“But if you leave now, that little football headed kid will never believe in miracles again.” -Helga

“Don’t try to make sense of it, Arnold. A miracle’s a miracle, and that’s all there is to it. Maybe you’ve got a Christmas angel looking out for you or something.” -Gerald

“Merry Christmas, Arnold.” -Helga

Closing Remarks

This holiday episode is a classic that will continue to pull at heart strings of young and old alike for years to come. With its timeless lessons, family values, and dash of real life issues, it’s definitely a must watch during the holiday season. Happy holidays everyone!

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Downtown as Fruits

Season 1 Episode 1

Downtown as Fruits Title

On October 7, 1996 Hey Arnold! premiered on Nickelodeon as one of their brand new Nicktoons. The episode Downtown as Fruits is the official pilot episode for the Nickelodeon debut, and it has remained a classic Hey Arnold! episode since then. In this episode we get introduced to the students of PS 118 in the midst of their preparation for the school play on the food groups, as put on by the one and only Helga Pataki. While this episode does show a good number of the characters, it mainly focuses on introducing the viewers to the main three, namely Arnold, Gerald, and Helga. A wise move as the rest of the show’s episodes tended to be focused in some form on these three characters.

Episode Synopsis

The episode opens with Arnold surfing an awesome wave on what seems to be a very pleasant day out at the beach. He is immediately snapped back to reality by Helga who is obnoxiously yelling at him to get off the stage. The students of PS 118 are preparing for a play on the food groups, to premiere that night, and Director Helga isn’t happy about their progress. She bosses and bullies the students around, clearly taking pleasure in her position of authority. None of the students make any attempt to stand against her, showing that they are all quite fearful of her threats. That night, Arnold dressed as a banana and Gerald dressed as a strawberry board the city bus to get to the school. It’s during this ride, where they are given many weird looks, that Gerald has the brilliant idea to *miss* the stop for the school and a few stops after that in order to get out of performing in the play put on by Helga. After a brief internal moral dilemma, Arnold decides to go along with it. At the school, Helga is informed by Phoebe that Arnold and Gerald are missing, thus causing her to yell Arnold’s name and Arnold to hear her angry cry all the way on the bus across town. They quickly reach the end of the bus line in downtown and are forced to get off. With no money and a disconnected pay phone, they begin to realize how serious their situation is.


Downtown as Fruits

We're stuck...downtown...as fruits.

That is, until a mysterious person tosses them a bag full of cash, telling them to take it as they know what it is. They gladly take it commenting on the kindness of downtown people and rush off to purchase some actual clothing. The viewer sees after Arnold and Gerald that two goons dressed as the same fruits were supposed to have received the money, showing that Arnold and Gerald just got mixed up in a case of mistaken identity. With the newly gained cash, Arnold and Gerald purchase some funky rags, eat some delicious street food, and dance and play pool at a downtown bar.

Meanwhile back at PS 118, Helga’s play is beginning to fall apart. It seems that Helga is about to go into an angry tirade about Arnold not being there, however her tirade quickly turns into a beautiful speech regarding her beloved. The classic back and forth of “I love you’s” and “I hate you’s” is said by Helga and Brainy is punched for the first time on the show.

Arnold and Gerald’s fortune takes a quick spiral downward when they are discovered by the goons and are chased out of the bar. They land in a fortune teller’s den who asks them if there is someone they have wronged. Gerald thinks back to Helga and answers no, but Arnold becomes horrified at the fact that they have wronged Helga and he yanks Gerald away while yelling that they have to make everything right again.

Things seem to be getting dire at the play and Helga goes on stage to announce a change of program as the fruits are absent. At this Arnold and Gerald leap on stage fully costumed and sing an adorable song about fruits. They are joined by the rest of the class in song as Helga watches from the side with an adoring look at Arnold. The audience gives the students a roaring ovation and the episode ends with Helga knocked down by the falling curtain with a bouquet of roses thrown at her face as she happily sighs, knowing that her play was a success and that Arnold had indeed shown up.


We're Fruits

It's fruits! It's fruits that really make us toots!

Characters, Traits, Etc.

Seeing as how this episode is the start of everything for the show’s Nickelodeon run, we learn A LOT. We first learn that Helga isn’t at all who she appears to be on the outside. She is seen by the other students as a condescending bully who is to be feared and tread carefully around when in actuality she can be quite poetic and secretly harbors a crush on Arnold. We do not actually see the depth of this crush and initially regard it as a regular school girl crush. Arnold is shown to be a boy with good moral character as he initially does not want to skip the play and ends up being the one to decide that they have to return to the school when they do end up skipping. Gerald is introduced as Arnold’s best friend who is willing to break the rules and doesn’t mind wronging the school bully at all. We also get a brief glimpse at Phoebe’s character, who is displayed as more of an assistant to Helga at this point in the show. Phoebe also looks up to Helga as when Helga cries due to her play being ruined, Phoebe begins crying too.

Other students briefly introduced and seen include Harold, Sheena, Eugene, Curly, Pea Pod Kid (who gets his name from his pea pod costume in this episode), Stinky, Rhonda, Nadine, Iggy, and Park.

Two last things to note. First, how awesome were Arnold and Gerald’s funky rags?! I totally agree with Gerald, too. Arnold’s banana shoes totally pulled his outfit together. Secondly…why did we have to see Helga’s underwear? This is the only time we ever see them, but it’s pretty random that we do. Oh the random things that go on with this show.


Funky Rags

Two suave looking nine year olds, ready to hit downtown!


There are the start of so many recurring gags and minor characters in this episode because, well doi! It’s the pilot episode! Recurring gags are a major component of Hey Arnold! and are part of what make it such a memorable show. Noteworthy gags that get their start in this episode include Monkeyman, the animals running out the Sunset Arms door as Arnold opens it, Arnold being the only one to hear Helga angrily yell his name across town, Brainy punches, Eugene’s clumsiness, and Helga’s confessions of love to the locket photo of Arnold. Love all the gags!


First Brainy Punch

The first ever punch from Helga that Brainy receives on the show!

Lessons Learned

We learn several important lessons in this episode. Firstly, treat your peers with respect. Helga abuses her position of power as director and writer of the food groups play, thus leading to Arnold and Gerald skipping out. If she had treated her peers with respect and directed them kindly, she probably wouldn’t have found herself in the compromising position of watching her play fall apart right before her eyes.


Love Hate

If only Helga could be her kind self all the time, but then we'd miss her awesome temper!

A minor thing we learn is a new word! We are basically told by Helga that legumes means beans, which personally, I didn’t know when I was watching the show as a precocious nine year old. Oh Helga and Arnold, you guys taught us so much vocabulary it’s ridiculous.



"Legumes? I thought we were beans!"

Another lesson learned is to always do the right thing. Arnold opts to miss the stop for the school, even though he knows it’s not the right thing to do. Even though he and Gerald end up having a great time downtown initially, the night nearly ends in disaster as they are almost caught by the gang. If Arnold had pulled the rope and gotten off at the correct stop, he might not have had the best time, but he would have stopped a whole lot of grief from happening.


Moral Dilemma

Even the most morally upstanding of us are susceptible to immoral behavior.

Finally, two wrongs don’t make a right. The main drive behind Arnold and Gerald deciding to skip out on the play was because they were really ticked off with the fact that they were doing this play for Helga, a big school bully. By deciding to tick her off by skipping, Arnold and Gerald end up nearly having a disastrous night of their own. This is summed up when they go visit the fortune teller who asks if they have wronged anyone as they have disrupted their karmic energy field. Gerald is fine with having wronged Helga, but Arnold realizes that disappointing Helga was not the solution to their problem and finally mans up and returns just in time to complete the play.


Are you kidding?!

Gerald you gotta be kidding! Think of Helga, and her play, and all the kids back at school who we're letting down!

Overall this is a wonderful episode and is an instant classic. No fan can resist this episode, especially with that adorable “It’s Fruits!” song at the end!

Really Boss Quotes

“Do vegetables have souls?” -Curly

“Slow down! This strawberry really chafes!” -Gerald

Helga: “First the legumes.” Pea Pod Kid: “Legumes? I thought we were beans.” Helga: “You are, genius!” -Helga and Pea Pod Kid

Gerald: “The journey is the destination man.” Arnold: “What’s that mean?”      Gerald: “I don’t know, I heard it in a hippy movie.” -Arnold and Gerald

“Wow, people downtown are really nice!” -Arnold

Helga: “If I ever get my hands on that Arnold I’ll…I’ll…soothe his fevered brow. Oh my poor lost sweetheart. How I love you, and yet I hate you! And yet I love you! And yet I hate you!” Brainy: “Breathe breathe breathe.” Helga: *punch* -Helga and Brainy

“Come on, we’ve got a karmic energy field to fix.” -Arnold

It’s fruits, it’s fruits, that really makes us toots;
It’s fruits, it’s fruits, that give us all a hoot!
It’s not like other food gorups aren’t important;
In fact, you need us all to make your fingernails and eyes and organs-
Fruits, it’s fruits, you gotta have your fruits;
That’s what the folks with scurvy say;
‘Cause it’s fruits, us fruits, that really makes us sing;
This is the end of our play! -Students of PS 118

“Wait till I get my hands on you Arnold, you…beautiful creature.” -Helga

Before I get into the various themes of Hey Arnold, I just want to say that I’m planning an article series. This article series would be an analysis of each episode of Hey Arnold to be hopefully updated at least once a week. I’m even thinking about doing a vlog to go along with it, time permitting of course! So keep your eyes out for that! Pretty psyched to do it! Now on to the topic of this posting.

Themes of Hey Arnold!

Hey Arnold!

Throughout the show’s run, there have been a multitude of life lessons and morals imparted to the viewers. These have been learned through the mistakes of various characters or simply through different life experiences. In thinking over these lessons learned, several themes appear that show that while the lessons themselves were individual, the overall ideas of Hey Arnold were quite broad and powerful.


This is arguably the biggest theme of the show as we are exposed to all kinds of love during the various episodes and it is practically present in some form in all the episodes. These kinds of love include unrequited, first love, familial love, platonic love, and unwanted love.

In the category of unrequited love, it is fairly obvious that Helga is the main character that is demonstrative of this theme. Throughout the six years of her crush/obsession over Arnold, he has never once returned the same sentiments of love to her. She has had to deal with the pain of unrequited love for the majority of her life and has to live with the wonder of whether or not it will ever be fulfilled or if she will ultimately be rejected. It’s a fear that many of us share, naively as children and more so as teens and adults. Even though she finally does reveal her feelings to Arnold, she never does receive an answer from him on where he stands regarding his feelings about her. Arnold manages to avoid the answer of how he feels by wisely giving the Helga the opportunity to take her confession back, which she quickly does so. Too bad The Jungle Movie never got made, or else we could have seen the resolution of this conversation and seen Helga’s unrequited love be fulfilled much to our gleeful little hearts. Others on the show with unrequited love include Brainy, who clearly has a thing for Helga even though she has never returned his sentiments, Curly and his psychotic crush on Rhonda, and even Arnold for a time when he was dealing with his feelings for Lila, who constantly rejected him on the basis that she only liked him platonically. The show makes it clear though that unrequited love can drive one crazy and that the best way to figure out how the object of your desire feels is to just lay it all on the table, even if it may lead to a painful discovery and a chick flick marathon with a tub of espresso flavored ice cream.


Helga's Unrequited Love

Unrequited love can be painful, as demonstrated by Helga.

First love is another major theme on this show, also viewable through the various actions of Helga as Arnold is her first and only love of her thus short life. However, in order to not sound repetitive and too focused on Helga (as much as I’d like to be because she is amazing), we’ll look at this theme through other characters. Most notably is Arnold’s crush on Ruth. This can be considered the first serious crush of Arnold’s childhood as he goes all goofy whenever he sees her and is unable to formulate a cohesive sentence. Another example of first love is Phoebe and Gerald. While Gerald has been known to check out other girls and did go out with Connie to a school dance (even though she was using him to make her boyfriend jealous), Gerald and Phoebe can be considered each other’s first loves. Definitely for Phoebe as it is never mentioned that she liked another person before. Through these characters actions we see that first love makes you feel silly, learn important life lessons, and more times than not will leave you with a broken heart. This is especially seen with Arnold when he learns how vapid Ruth really is and is broken up with by Lila. Poor guy has had to deal with enough heart break in his nine years! Other characters besides the aforementioned deal with their first love too, including Harold who seemingly falls for Patty, Stinky who becomes broken hearted over Helga for a brief time, and Curly with his wild obsession over Rhonda.

Operation Ruthless

First love on the show is generally depicted as inflicting feelings of goofiness, whimsy, and inability to speak coherently. While the majority ends in heart break, Gerald and Phoebe are able to avoid a painful end entirely.

Familial love and platonic love falls into two coming categories of themes that I’ll later cover, so on to the last sublevel of love covered in the show, unwanted love. This is primarily shown by Brainy and Curly with their obsessions over Helga and Rhonda respectively. Neither of these two girls wants either of the guys, yet they  have to deal with it day in and day out. While Helga deals with Brainy through violence, Rhonda deals with Curly by exuding her disgust at the very idea of a relationship with him. In “Curly’s Girl” however, Rhonda unwillingly enters into a relationship with Curly for one week in exchange for him cleaning her mother’s new fur coat that she had just ruined. Even though Rhonda cannot wait to be free of this horrifying situation, Curly blurs the line between his own fantasy and reality by showers his beloved with gifts and love, believing that in some way she is returning his sentiments, or at least will soon. Once the week is up though, Rhonda breaks up with him, leaving him incredibly heart broken and morose. They end up getting back together so Rhonda can reclaim her popular status, but Curly breaks up with her in order to ensure that she doesn’t lose her status again. The main thing learned through this theme is to never lead someone on that you don’t feel anything for as it will only lead to major emotional pain for them.

Although much of the love seen in Hey Arnold leads to painful outcomes, there are joyous things seen of love such as Phil and Gertie’s happy and crazy marriage, Harold and Patty’s calmness and peace, and the fact that it can make one feel so many different amazing emotions that you feel as though you are floating on air. Furthermore it can be seen that love does indeed conquer all. It was nice to see though that Hey Arnold depicted the toughness and reality of love. Love isn’t all butterflies and rainbows, there’s work involved and unfortunately it doesn’t work out all the time. It’s a rough lesson for these kids to learn, but learn it they do and so do we right along with them.


One thing I mentioned in the area of love is familial love. This is a huge thing covered in the show. Firstly, we see that family isn’t necessarily who you are born with, but also the other people you love. Through Arnold, we see that he has quite a dysfunctional family comprising of his grandparents, wacky boarders, and of course, Gerald, his best friend. These are the people that Arnold loves the most and relies on during his difficult times and trials. In “The Journal”, it’s Gerald out of all of his friends who attempts to comfort Arnold on the anniversary of his parents’ disappearance. Even though Arnold’s parents are missing, they are still a part of his family even though they are not present. He keeps them close by constantly wearing the blue hat his father gave him as a baby. This shows that no matter where your family is, they’re still a part of you and who you are.


Family doesn't just include those you're born with, but also those that love, support, and care for you.

Another thing learned through the theme of family is that your family always loves you, even when it may not seem like they do. In “Arnold’s Thanksgiving”, tired of being constantly looked over and ignored by her own family, especially on the holiday, Helga disappears from the house and traipses about the city. She has a heart to heart with Arnold and ends up returning home, arriving to her parents and sister in a sheer panic over her disappearance. Seeing this, she’s able to realize that even though they may not always show it, they all do really care and love her and would do anything to ensure her safety. Through this we see that even the most dysfunctional family can and do have love for each other. We also learn that we should show our family that we love them more often before it’s too late. Sadly, Helga’s family never fully learns this lesson as they return to their routine of ignoring Helga in subsequent episodes.

Thanksgiving Patakis

After returning from her several hour disappearance, Helga sees how worried her parents and sister were about her safety and realizes that her family does indeed love her, even though they don't always show it.

This same theme is demonstrated in the more normal family of Gerald Johanssen. When Gerald moves to the Sunset Arms boarding house in order to be rid of his annoying family in “Gerald Moves Out”, he learns just how much he really loves all of them despite how much they can peeve him sometimes. He tries to hide this from his family when they come visit, but eventually breaks down, runs home, and requests to come back home. Through this his family expresses how much they love him and welcome him back with a giant family hug. Gerald learns in a painful way that your family is there for you when you need them and that they are a part of you. As his mother says in response to his question of if they even care about him, “We will always care about you.”

Family Hug

Gerald learns just how strong a family's love is after he returns from a brief stint of living on his own.

The best example of the strength of family has to be Mr. Hyunh in “Arnold’s Christmas”. In order to give his daughter, Mai, a better chance at life during the Vietnam War, he hands her off to an American soldier before the soldier helicopters off. Mr. Hyunh has spent over twenty years searching for his daughter in Hillwood, and becomes incandescently happy when she arrives in the living room of the boarding house on Christmas morning courtesy of Helga’s secret good deed. Mr. Hyunh’s and Mai’s emotional reuniting shows that the bond of family never dies and that it is just about the strongest bond out there. By giving her up to the soldier, Mr. Hyunh ensured Mai’s survival even though he suffered the loss for many years. That’s family right there, sacrificing a huge amount in order to ensure your family’s safety, happiness, and well being, especially in a time of danger.


The best example on the show of the strength of family love. The only thing that would have been better than this would have to be Arnold reunited with his parents in The Jungle Movie.

Family is an important part of life, but it doesn’t always have to necessarily comprise of those you were born with. Family is made up of the ones who care and love you for who you are and are the ones you can depend on when you’ve lost your way or are just feeling down. This is demonstrated repeatedly on the show and can be considered a core theme.


There are many friendships explored throughout the series. However the main ones focused on are Gerald/Arnold, Phoebe/Helga, Rhonda/Nadine, and Sid/Stinky/Harold. Through their friendships we see just how much friendship is worth fighting for. Each pair endures their own set of conflicts, reconcile, and become stronger and better friends.

Take for instance Gerald and Arnold. They’re best friends from day one in preschool with their super awesome thumb handshake and their love of music and funky things. Gerald’s a great wingman to Arnold and Arnold helps keep Gerald’s big ideas down to earth. Their biggest conflict was in “Part Time Friends” where they both worked together in Mrs. Vitello’s Flower Shop. Arnold is excellent with flower arrangements and Gerald is great with money handling and the business end of things. When Mrs. Vitello injures her back, she gives Gerald the responsibility of keeping the business running. This leads to an abuse of power by Gerald and pangs of jealousy within Arnold. The two end up having a huge argument, leading to several days of silent treatment between the two. Eventually, the two make up realizing how petty it is for them to end their friendship over a stupid argument.


Part Time Friends

Even though they have what can be considered their biggest argument ever, Arnold and Gerald make up and develop an even stronger bond of friendship.

Helga and Phoebe are another friendship the show tends to explore. While in the beginning of the show’s run, Phoebe was shown more as an assistant to Helga,  it was later revealed that the two truly do care for one another and regard each other as their best friend. This is especially seen in “Phoebe Skips”, where the two experience their own huge conflict. When Phoebe is promoted to the sixth grade as she is a super genius, Helga tries to warn her (in her own Helga manner) that she will probably be hurt by the other sixth graders. Helga is also fearful that she will be unable to replace Phoebe and tries unsuccessfully to do so. Phoebe on the other hand is taken advantage of by the sixth grade girls and ends up emotionally hurt. In the end, the two have an emotional heart to heart in the girls’ bathroom after a tearful Phoebe overhears Helga’s soliloquy about her regret over not supporting her best friend. Through this conversation, Helga finally admits that Phoebe is her best friend and Phoebe admits the same. It’s actually one of my all time favorite scenes of the show.


Phoebe Skips

Phoebe and Helga realize just how much their friendship means to them when Phoebe is emotionally hurt by the sixth grade girls and Helga has to learn how to go through daily life without Phoebe. Each admits that they consider the other to be their best friend in a rare heart to heart conversation.

While many of the friends on Hey Arnold experience their own turbulent times and personal differences, for the most part they are able to reconcile and realize just how important the other is to them. The show imparts the lesson that a great friendship is worth fighting for and does take work to maintain. There are both good and bad times, but if you’re willing to overcome the bad then your bond with your friend will become even stronger. As Arnold puts it when Gerald asks him if they’re still friends, “Friends ’till the very end.”

Bright Side

It’s no secret that Arnold constantly looks on the bright side of things. He’s always trying to find the good in people and the positive aspects of a seemingly terrible situation. In the film, Gerald asks Arnold, “Why do you always have to look on the bright side?” to which Arnold responds with, “Somebody has to.” That in itself is a huge theme and lesson the show imparts. Someone always needs to be able to look on the bright side of a situation, because if one is unable to find the bright side in anything, then the world can be quite dark and cold.

A great instance where Arnold tries to find the bright side in everything is when he converses with Helga in “Arnold’s Thanksgiving”. Helga is always looking at the negative in things as that is all she has ever known. It is especially difficult for her to see the good in the world when all she tends to see and experience is the bad. I find the following to really sum up how they each view the world:

Arnold: Maybe we should at least try to be optimistic. Maybe we should look on the bright side.

Helga: What bright side football head?

Arnold: We have this beautiful view. *cut to sewage filled harbor*

Helga: Keep trying Arnold.

Arnold: There’s no school today.

Helga: Skip on down.

Arnold: Hey look it’s the Mayflower! The symbol of the pilgrims and the first Thanksgiving! It…it must be some kind of sign Helga!

Helga: Maybe you’re right. *sits down and watches ship crash* Yea, it’s a sign all right. It’s a sign that this is possibly the worst Thanksgiving ever. Oh brother.


Arnold constantly tries to find the bright side of things while Helga tends to only see the bad. By the end of the episode, they are both able to see that Thanksgiving with their families isn't so bad after all.


This exchange between the two really demonstrates their differing world views. Although both of them have dysfunctional families and practically nonexistent parents (Arnold’s actually being nonexistent in his life and Helga’s being nonexistent emotionally), their world views are incredibly different. Helga is unable to look on the bright side, but eventually Arnold gets her to do so after they go to Mr. Simmons’ home and see how terrible his Thanksgiving is, realizing that if he can put up with his own selfish family, they can each put up with their crazy ones too.

Arnold constantly finds the good in people and brings out everyone’s optimism, whether it’s showing Stinky that he is actually good at something in “Stinky’s Pumpkin” or helping Harold achieve his goal of losing his excess weight in “Weighing Harold”. Sometimes though, even Arnold himself is unable to look on the bright side. In “The List”, after Arnold is unsuccessful in every task towards a perfect Saturday, he goes to the roof of the boarding house and looks out on the city in a depressed mood. Gertie then appears and successfully cheers him up with my favorite song of the entire show, “Look Up”. Honestly, if you ever need a pick me up, just listen to this song. It’ll seriously put the biggest smile on your face as it did with Arnold and will make you look up. The lyrics of the song basically sum up this entire theme of the bright side. The following are the lyrics to “Look Up”:


Look Up

When skies are gone gray, things gone astray, don't hide away! Look up!

When life gets you down, wearing a frown, don’t look away, look up,
‘Cause memories true come of the blue; you know the way – look up!
When skies are gone gray, things gone astray, don’t look away, look up;
Arnold: I had a bad day; nothing went right; I hate my dumb life; I’m down.
When you’re feeling under the weather, and the dark clouds are getting to you,
Keep your troubles light as a feather, and soon you’ll be seeing a bright patch of blue;
Gotta look up, you gotta be strong, you gotta take things as they come,
‘Cause everything new that happens to you is better when you…look up!

Now sing it with Gertie!😀

The main things through this theme is that it is important to always look for the good in people and to look on the bright side of life. In doing so, one leads a happier, more fulfilling life. However, it’s all right to actually be down sometimes as it’s all part of life and growing up.


One thing can be said for certain about the show, and it’s that none of the characters are 100% perfect. They each have their own flaws. Helga is unable to show her true self, Gerald keeps falling for his own get rich quick schemes, Phoebe greatly fears failure, Arnold can sometimes go too far with trying to make wrongs right, and even little Ms. Perfect herself has flaws. Lila is way too perky and can actually be manipulative when she wants to. Although her manipulation is rarely demonstrated, it is seen pretty clearly in “School Play” as shown in Helga and Lila’s exchange below:

Helga: Look, Lila, I have to play Juliet.

Lila: Why, Helga?

Helga: Because I just do, okay?!

Lila: Well, if you don’t have a reason…

Helga: I have a reason, I just…can’t tell you what it is!

Lila: This isn’t by any chance because you like Arnold, is it?

Helga: *shocked then angrily* Are you crazy?!

Lila: *looking innocent* Oh because if that was the reason, if you wanted to play Juliet because you really like Arnold and you wanted to kiss him or something, well I sure could understand that! I guess I’d think it was ever so sweet and I wouldn’t mind giving up the part so you could do it.

Helga: Y-you mean if I said I liked Arnold, then you’d let me play Juliet?

Lila: Sure Helga, but you don’t…

Helga: W-w-wait a minute.

Lila: *slyly* Yes, Helga?

Helga: U-uh strictly hypothetically if I said I liked Arnold, *laughs nervously* talk about a crazy idea, would you swear never to tell a soul about it?

Lila: I suppose so if it was a secret or something.

Helga: And would you also understand that, and this is still hypothetical, that if I told you I liked Arnold and you spilled the beans to anybody that I would strangle you with my bare hands?

Lila: W-well I’m sure I would never tell.

Helga: *whispers* I like Arnold.

Lila: Pardon? I couldn’t hear you.

Helga: *quickly mumbling* I like Arnold.

Lila: I’m sorry Helga you’re mumbling.

Helga: I LIKE ARNOLD! I’m head over heels, hook line and sinker, over the moon, loop-de-loop, wa wa doot in love with the boy! Happy now?! Happy?!

Lila: *slyly* I kind of had a funny feeling you liked him.

School Play

Lila can be a sly, manipulative little girl when she wants to be. Clever Lila. Verrry clever.


So little Ms. Perfect isn’t perfect after all, she’s a sly little girl when she wants to be and manages to wrangle Helga into confessing her deepest secret to her. Skill. Now while this may not be considered a character flaw in all characters, it can be considered a flaw of Lila’s as she is always exuding perfection and innocence, and slyness and manipulation are typically not traits associated with the aforementioned.

It’s not just the kids who are flawed in the show, it’s the adults too! Oskar is a lazy bum, Miriam is an alcoholic, Bob is overly competitive, Olga is overly perfectionistic, Mr. Wartz is too rash in his decisions, and Mr. Potts has a quick temper. Through this show we learn that everyone is flawed and no one is perfect. However, it’s okay to be flawed because it’s what makes us “special”, as Mr. Simmons would so kindly put. You should embrace people for who they are, flaws and all, and learn to love your own flaws as they’re what set you apart from the crowd.


Sacrifice plays a huge role in the stories of Hey Arnold, and many characters learn the real meaning of it. As I mentioned before in this article, the biggest sacrifice of all was arguably Mr. Hyunh giving up Mai to the American soldier in order to guarantee her safety during the Vietnam War. Other characters make sacrifices on the show too, and through them learn what it means to care for someone more than yourself.

The other biggest sacrifice made on the show was Helga’s. Throughout the show’s course, she makes two large sacrifices which are when she gives up the one thing she wanted for Christmas, the Nancy Spumoni snow boots, in order to give Arnold a Christmas miracle, and when she goes against her father’s wishes behind his back and helps Arnold save the neighborhood, even though it means the loss of a massive amount of wealth for her family and success for her father. Through her first sacrifice, Helga learns what it truly means to love someone. She actually puts Arnold’s needs and wants before her own, and in doing so experiences a level of peace and calm that is never seen in her again except as Cecile in “Arnold’s Valentine”. Through the second sacrifice, she proves her love for Arnold even further by again putting him ahead of the wants and needs of her own family. She also proves that she’s a pretty amazing person, as she says so herself in retort to Arnold’s, “That’s a pretty amazing thing to do for someone you claim to hate.”



Arnold: That's a pretty amazing thing to do for someone you claim to hate. Helga: Yea well I'm a pretty amazing person!

Hey Arnold shows that in life, it is necessary for one to make sacrifices in order to keep on moving. It also shows that if someone loves another, they are able to do things for them at a great cost to themselves. If one is unable to sacrifice for the greater good of others, then how are they able to fully live and experience the humanity of the world?


The final major theme of the show is morality. Arnold walks a very tight moral line and upholds good morals for himself and all of his friends. Whenever he feels that something isn’t right, he tends to be the first to point it out. As much of a do gooder as Arnold is, he is susceptible to doing the wrong thing too.

In “Cool Jerk” Arnold becomes friends with a bad crowd of guys and begins to act immorally, including skipping school, disregarding his true friends, and sneaking out at night, because he likes being considered cool by the other kids. When he realizes that the guys only wanted him to help them with a break in, he tries to leave, but gets left behind when the guys disperse as a police siren approaches. Gerald ends up being the one behind the police siren sound, saving Arnold and being there for him, even when Arnold had disregarded his warnings about the guys earlier. Arnold realized that he did the wrong thing and almost suffered real life consequences for his actions. If it wasn’t for his best friend Gerald, he probably would have.


Cool Jerk

If Gerald hadn't come to Arnold's rescue, he probably would have faced some heavy consequences for his immoral deeds.

Another time when someone goes against good is when Curly takes the dodgeballs hostage in the principal’s office in “Curly Snaps”. Rather than giving up, he takes Arnold hostage when he brings him his requested food. This leads to a tense negotiation between Arnold, Mr. Simmons, and Sid leading to a peaceful conclusion. Curly thinks that he’s getting away with all of his demands and no consequences for his actions, however Mr. Wartz ends up giving him a load of detention for endangering the other students and insubordination. Curly went about the problem of not being ball monitor the wrong way and tried to solve it with violence. This ended up hurting him in the end, because even though he got what he wanted, he still ended up receiving a fair punishment for his wrongful actions.

Finally, when Sid tries to pass off Arnold’s room as his own in order to impress Lorenzo in “Arnold’s Room”, he eventually gets caught in his lie. Sid almost loses both Arnold and Lorenzo as friends, however both ultimately decide to forgive him for his ruse. In doing this, Sid learns that it’s better to be honest, as he almost loses two really good friends, and that if Lorenzo hadn’t been able to accept him for who he really is, then he wouldn’t have really been a worthwhile friend anyways.

Overall, a good moral center is an important thing to have. Without one, a person can lead a life of misery and major consequences. Traipsing away from good morality also leads to consequences. So lesson learned here? Always do the right thing, even when you don’t want to. You’ll be better off for it.

Closing Remarks

Hey Arnold imparts many different themes to it’s viewers that stay with them for a lifetime. I myself constantly try to look on the bright side, follow good morals, and support my friends and loved ones through everything. Other lesser themes not explored in this article include miracles being real, first impressions not always being right, the harshness of reality, and that without anything to live for, one can feel emotionless and alone. I feel that many people who grew up with Hey Arnold went on to apply these themes to their real life and grew into mature, wise, and caring individuals. This is definitely a show my future children will watch so as to impart its lessons to them. Continue living by the lessons of Hey Arnold, and you’re sure to live a fulfilling and amazing life.

Hey Arnold

One final note! If you like Arnold and Helga, be sure to check out Moira’s (aka HAFanForever) essay on the pair. It’s an incredibly well written, well researched, and insightful essay on the pair and should be a must read for any fan of the pairing. Heck any fan of the show should read it! You can find it here. Be forewarned, it is quite a long essay, but is well worth the read.

Love and Cheese

While it is very clear that the main couple examined in Hey Arnold! is Arnold and Helga, there is a lesser known couple shooting each other sweet looks in the background. This couple is comprised of Phoebe and Gerald, Helga and Arnold’s best friends respectively. Their attraction and love for each other is never stated explicitly, however it is creatively implied. It also can be concluded that the other students of PS 118 know about their feelings for each other. Furthermore, if The Patakis had been made, Phoebe and Gerald would have been an official couple in the series.

Signs of Romance and Compatibility

One doesn’t have to look very closely to notice the definitive signs of Phoebe and Gerald’s love. In fact, the animators have put their feelings out there very clearly, however never in the foreground. Their relationship is never explored as a stand alone episode and no character ever explicitly states anything regarding Phoebe and Gerald’s affections.

Gerald and Phoebe appear to be a very compatible couple. Phoebe’s logic and realistic view of life compliments Gerald’s personality very well. Gerald is a smooth talker and is very street smart. With Phoebe’s book smarts, they’re an unstoppable duo. Furthermore, Phoebe’s logic alleviates some of Gerald’s fears and they both have a very calm personality. With their chaotic best friends, it’s not a mystery that they are able to find comfort and happiness with each other.

The recurrent things that occur between these two include dancing together, talking in the background at parties, shooting each other quick glances, and making offhand comments about the other.

Important Episodes

The first hints we see of their relationship is in the season one episode, “Operation Ruthless”. After Helga runs into the Maze of Mirrors after Arnold, who is following Ruth, Phoebe and Gerald exchange a glance that obviously conveys mutual attraction. These glances occur throughout the series at random moments.

Operation Ruthless

Their first meet in the show. Glances like these occur through out the show.

Later on in the same episode, during mystery match night at the Tunnel of Love, Phoebe and Gerald end up in the same boat. In their boat they have a conversation where Phoebe relays to Gerald the story of her bumper car accident. This is what follows:

Gerald: Wow. Are you okay?

Phoebe: Yea, I’m okay now.

It is also important to note that Gerald puts his hand on Phoebe’s shoulder as he asks her if she’s okay.

Operation Ruthless

A boat ride through the Tunnel of Love. Notice Gerald's hand on Phoebe's shoulder.

At the end of the episode, Phoebe walks up to Gerald and they leave the fair hand in hand. Interestingly enough, Helga looks surprised at this development, suggesting that this episode marks the beginning of Phoebe and Gerald’s relationship and possibly that Helga did not know about Phoebe’s attraction to Gerald.

Operation Ruthless

The beginnings of their romance in the background. Helga appeared surprised at this development.

Another major episode for the two is “Hall Monitor” where Phoebe emulates Helga in order to gain respect and power in her new position. One thing Phoebe does is give Gerald a ridiculous amount of detentions for things such as turning a corner too wide and having suspiciously quiet shoes. When he throws the tickets up in the air, she gives him an additional one for littering.

Hall Monitor

Phoebe's mimicry of Helga's personality in order to perform well as hall monitor appears to extend to how she shows affection. She annoys Gerald with a multitude of tickets.

It almost seems like that by emulating Helga in her hall monitor duties, she is also mimicking Helga’s actions around Arnold. By showering Gerald with probably the most amount of punishments, Phoebe annoys him and does exactly what Helga does to Arnold. While all the kids are in detention, everyone appeals to her to return to her old self, including Gerald who walks up to her and says the following:

Gerald: And what about the old Phoebe? Who used to always eat the crusts off my sandwiches and give me the middle?

Hall Monitor

Gerald appeals to Phoebe to return to her nice, quiet self.


Can I get a resounding AWWWWWWWWWWW!!!! So sweet and adorable.

A final major episode would have be “Wheezin’ Ed” where the two are paired up together to explore the caves for treasure. When Helga pairs them up, they look at each other sweetly. There is also a cute scene where Phoebe kindly explains why there shouldn’t be any sudden drops in the cave, alleviating Gerald’s fear.

Wheezin' Ed

A sweet glance is shared after Helga pairs Phoebe and Gerald up.

Other notable scenes in the series include them talking to each other at Rhonda’s party in “Hey Harold”, enjoying the fair in “Love and Cheese”, Phoebe admiring Gerald’s skills in “Roughin’ It”, Phoebe complimenting Gerald on his solo in “Gerald’s Tonsils”, Gerald’s photo in Phoebe’s locker in “Phoebe Breaks a Leg”, the class photo at the end of “New Teacher”, and the two dancing together in “April Fools Day”. There are many more minor scenes, but these are the ones that stand out to me.

Hey Harold

Gerald whispers sweet nothings into Phoebe's ear in "Hey Harold".

New Teacher

Phoebe gazes over adoringly at Gerald at the end of "New Teacher".

Their Friends

One does have to admit that the ironic thing about Gerald and Phoebe’s pairing is that they are the best friends of Arnold and Helga. Thus they are unable to talk to each other about everything. Gerald definitely doesn’t know about Helga’s true feelings about Arnold and one can presume that Gerald does not openly bash Helga when speaking with Phoebe. Furthermore, Gerald and Phoebe are definitely more loyal to their best friends than to each other. For instance, in “April Fools Day” Gerald supported Arnold’s plan of revenge on Helga while Phoebe supported Helga in fooling Arnold.

Also, it seems that everyone at PS 118 knows about their relationship. Whenever they are seen together, the other students around them act like it’s a normal occurrence and don’t give them any grief about it. The strongest evidence suggesting that their relationship is common knowledge can be seen in the episode “Dinner for Four”. The following occurs:

Helga: Phoebe! You’re coming with me to dinner on Saturday night. 5:00 at a fancy French restaurant.

Phoebe: I am?

Helga: And you’re gonna invite Gerald and then ask Gerald to invite “a friend”. See?

Dinner for Four

Gerald and Phoebe's relationship is common knowledge, as seen in "Dinner for Four".


Seeing as how Helga point blank asks Phoebe to invite Gerald shows that she knows Gerald and Phoebe are a thing and that it is normal.

Closing Remarks

While they’re not necessarily the center of the show, Phoebe and Gerald’s love is probably the sweetest one on there next to Phil and Gertie’s. Their adoring looks, small moments, and calmness behind the chaos that is Arnold and Helga is what makes their quiet relationship an amazing and integral part of the show.

April Fools

Calm lovers in the background.

Before I delve into this topic, let me briefly introduce myself. My name is Jill, and I’m a 21 year old pre-med college student who rediscovered Hey Arnold! in August 2010. Since then I’ve fallen back in love with the show and have realized how much more I appreciate it as an adult! I’m thrilled to be able to critically analyze it here as it is so complex and rich with story and development. My goal is to update this at least once a week, but it may be more or less so bear with me! My other major fandom is Harry Potter which I also write for on occasion. If you want to know anything else, just ask! Okay on to the topic of this post!

Motifs of Helga and Arnold

April Fool Tango

To begin, let’s first define motif for those of you who don’t know. A motif is a recurring subject, theme, idea, etc. It is clear to see that the show has quite a few motifs surrounding the explosive relationship of Helga and Arnold. Whether or not you believe they are soul mates which you totally should because it’s true is totally up to you. However, allow me to shed some light on the motifs used for them.

1. Arnold Hears Helga

Tendra has already discussed this one in a prior post, however it is clearly a big motif within the show. First started in the first episode on Nickelodeon, “Downtown as Fruits”, it has remained a quintessential gag. The first one went like this:

Helga: Hey! Where are the fruits?!

Phoebe: They’re not here Helga. They never showed up.

Helga: What? *blinks* Arnoooooold!!

*cut to wide city view then to bus*

Arnold to Gerald: Did you hear something just now?

Gerald: No.

This gag continues throughout the series, most notably in “Helga Blabs it All” and “Buses, Bikes, and Subways” where Arnold is the only one to notice that Helga is missing from the school bus. While many people seem to find this to just be a gag or just meaning that Arnold is possibly so fearful of Helga that he can sense her anger, there is a camp of people who believe that it is a sign of Helga and Arnold being meant for each other. It’s a common cliche in romantic films for the male to sense when his female companion is in danger, so it is logical to conclude that the purpose of Arnold being the only one to hear Helga scream his name, or just scream, is to show that they are meant for each other. Furthermore, while some may argue the fear of bullying end, think of this. In an episode of How I Met Your Mother, soul mates Lily and Marshall discuss how connected they are to the point where if Lily eats ice cream, Marshall gets ill because he is lactose intolerant. So why else would the writers make this gag except to push the idea forward that Helga and Arnold are soul mates? Furthermore, in the episode “Magic Show” where Helga experiences a dream world where she no longer exists and is not missed a la It’s a Wonderful Life, whenever Helga screams in her dream world, Arnold does not hear her as she doesn’t exist and therefore cannot be his soul mate. I don’t know if I’m going to far with that bit, but eh I’ll note it.

2. Disguises

Throughout the show, Helga dons a variety of disguises around Arnold. The only time he doesn’t know that it’s her though is when she is disguised as Cecile in “Arnold’s Valentine”. Through her disguises, pivotal moments occur and important lessons are learned. The first time that Helga dons a disguise around Arnold is in the aforementioned episode. Initially, the disguise fails as Helga nearly reverts to her bullying mechanism and abrasiveness when Arnold notes that Helga really bugs him. Furthermore, Helga is so fearful initially that Arnold will figure out its her that she is unable to relax and let her true personality shine through. The initial disguise also isn’t very good as it is quite, erm, gah there were no words. However, after she vomits her cervelles braisees avec les oeufs brouilles, which she was kindly informed was calves’ brains and eggs, she relaxes, allows her soft side to shine through, and even cheers Arnold up after he realized how vapid Ruth really was. Her disguise even becomes more feminine and softer and she does somewhat confess to liking Arnold. Through this disguise, Helga was able to show Arnold the side of her that only Phoebe ever saw and gains confidence in their compatibility as he really likes what he sees. Here’s a listing of her various other disguises through out the show’s run and their pivotal moments and lessons.

“Arnold’s Halloween”: Alien


Arnold's Halloween

Arnold basically saves Helga's life, or at least from great bodily injury, as he runs up and attempts to persuade her father that he is not holding an alien, but his own daughter.


“Helga’s Boyfriend”: Stinky’s Girlfriend


Helga's Boyfriend

Helga disguises herself as Stinky's girlfriend in a failed attempt to get Arnold jealous. She believes it has worked when Arnold tells her that a friend has something important to say to her, however the friend turns out to be Stinky. Lesson learned through this episode is that deceit will not get you what you want and someone will get hurt.


“School Play”: Juliet


School Play

After manipulating Rhonda, Sheena, and Phoebe into dropping out of the role of Juliet, Helga confesses her secret to Lila in order to score the part. The major pivotal event that occurs is that Helga gets her deepest desire; a kiss with Arnold. She later attributes the kiss's length to good acting.


“Dinner for Four”: Sophisticated Helga


Dinner for Four

In order to impress Arnold, Helga holds a dinner with her friends at Chez Paris to show that she is sophisticated. There is a moment after Helga says, "Lovely little bistro, n'est-ce pas?" where Arnold has a stunned look on his face, as though he realized something. Arguably, he may have flashed back to Cecile. Another important thing of note, Arnold shows that he is impressed with Helga when she does the right thing and acts like herself.


“It Girl”: Model


It Girl

As a model, Helga learns that having everything doesn't necessarily mean happiness. Furthermore, it's shown that her abrasiveness is as much a personality as her soft side.


“Helga’s Masquerade”: Lila


Helga's Masquerade

Seeing how Arnold reacts to Lila's innocent and sickly sweet personality, she emulates her during a costume party. Thus she and Arnold hang out and have a great time during the party, until he accidentally calls her Lila. Once she reverts to her normal appearance, Arnold becomes disinterested. Helga learns that it is better to be herself than to act like someone else. Furthermore, she learns that Arnold does like her, and in her eyes that means she's halfway there to him liking her liking her.


“Summer Love”: Babewatch Lifeguard


Summer Love

As a Babewatch lifeguard, Helga seizes her opportunity at a second kiss with Arnold by shoving aside the other actress and saying, "Move over Barbie, I've got this one."


“Hey Arnold!: The Movie”: Deep Voice

Hey Arnold!: The Movie
As Deep Voice, Helga sacrifices great personal gain in order to secretly help Arnold save the neighborhood. She also confesses her secret to Arnold, albeit in a crazed manner. Lesson learned? Happily ever after in romance doesn’t always happen as she takes back the confession and returns to normal.

3. Storms

Whenever something major happens between Helga and Arnold, it always seems to happen during a storm. It’s almost as though the storm is a metaphor for their relationship. Storms are unpredictable, wild, and exciting. They also provide what is needed for life to grow and the eye of the storm is extremely calm. Thus as I see it, if Helga and Arnold were to indeed become a couple at some point, their relationship would be filled with their highs and lows, however they would balance each other out and provide the other with what they need.

One notable moment that occurs during a storm is their first meeting during the flashback in “Helga on the Couch”. After Helga has walked by herself in the storm to school, it’s Arnold who shades her from the storm with his umbrella. This moment is then repeated outside of Helga’s home in “Beaned”, where Arnold again shades her from the storm and even takes her arm to walk her to school. In fact, the episode actually starts with a storm where Helga watches as he assists Rhonda from the bus while she ends up having to get soaked in the rain.

4. Crash into Each Other

It always seems that when one of them is rounding a corner, the other is rounding it at the same time leading them to crash right into each other. This is continually done throughout  the show. One fan fiction, entitled “Arnold on the Couch” brought the light the idea that this continuous literal crashing into each other could be the universe’s way of pushing them together. It’s not an illogical idea and certainly one under consideration. Another sign that they’re soul mates? I believe it is.

Before Crash
Whenever Arnold and Helga are rounding a corner at the same time…
After Crash
…they crash into each other, as though the universe is pushing them together.

5. Arnold Nearly Hearing Helga’s Secret

On quite a few episodes, Arnold surprises Helga by showing up near her during one of her soliloquies about him. She always manages to recover her cool and cover up her moment with some excuse to which Arnold generally responds to with “Whatever you say, Helga.” Now while it’s not really that major of a motif, it’s something worth noting as it’s quite amazing that Arnold has never heard or realized Helga’s secret during these intrusions. Odd, but then again he didn’t figure out that Cecile was Helga, even though it was fairly obvious.

6. Moral Dilemmas

Whenever one of them has a dilemma of some sort, the other tends to step up and help the other. This happens more with Arnold helping Helga out rather than the other way around. For instance, in “Olga gets Engaged”, Arnold points out that Helga taking pleasure in her sister’s probable bleak future is wrong, leading Helga to scare off her sister’s horrid fiance. Arnold does have his dilemmas too. In “Deconstructing Arnold”, it’s Helga who shows Arnold that even though they sometimes find his helping them solve their problems to be annoying, it’s something they need and something he does better than her. Overall, without each other, they may have gone down very dark paths, especially Helga.

7. Connection

It is rare that Arnold and Helga connect over something, but when they do it’s a very beautiful thing. The biggest example of this is “Arnold’s Thanksgiving”, where they spend the day with each other venting about their dysfunctional families and the fact that neither have had a normal Thanksgiving. Also of note, while Arnold is standing outside Helga’s home watching her happily sit at the table surrounded by her family, he says, “Happy Thanksgiving, Helga” in almost the same tone as Helga said, “Merry Christmas, Arnold” in “Arnold’s Christmas”.

8. Subconscious

Via daydreams, dreams, and nightmares, the psyches of Arnold and Helga are explored and reveal many interesting things. Helga often daydreams of futures with Arnold, such as their wedding, him seeing her as sophisticated, etc. Her dreams and daydreams are typical girl stuff, with her personality thrust into it such as her dream in “Married”. For Arnold though, the motif of the subconscious reveals some interesting things about him. For instance, in “Arnold visits Arnie”, Arnold has a dream/nightmare about visiting his cousin Arnie where everyone in the town is the exact opposite of the person he knows at home. The only exception to this is Hilda, the country version of Helga. Arnold believes that he is seeing Helga’s opposite, however Hilda’s personality is very similar to Helga’s when she is not being a bully. He in fact falls for Hilda, and thus this episode is considered strong evidence of a future for the two. Furthermore, at the end of his nightmare in “Married”, dream Helga confesses her love for him just as his alarm rings, suggesting that deep down he understands her and cares for her. The only other notable dreams are the ones they have during Carmen in “What’s Opera, Arnold?”.




In "Arnold Visits Arnie", Arnold dreams of everyone in Hillwood as their opposite. He falls for Hilda, whom he believes is the opposite of Helga. However her personality is basically what Helga's is when she's not in bully mode.


9. Helga’s Trinkets

An interesting motif is the one where something of Helga’s that could reveal her love for Arnold ends up in his home. Helga thus goes to great lengths to retrieve these items and keep her secret safe. Items that she had to retrieve include her little pink book of Arnold poems with her name in it, a confessional voice message, a parrot that had memorized an Arnold poem with her name in it, and her locket with an inscription of love. Each time Arnold gets very close to learning the secret before Helga successfully retrieves the object. It’s a wonder as to why Helga never learns her lesson to not put her name on these items!

10. Sacrifice

The final motif that I could think of is the multiple times that Helga and Arnold sacrifice something in order to make the other happy. While this is done more on Helga’s part, there are several instances where Arnold sacrifices too. Helga’s sacrifices tend to be huge too. An excellent example of this is in “Arnold’s Christmas” where she gives up the one thing she wanted for Christmas, the difficult to find Nancy Spumoni snow boots, in order to find Mr. Hyunh’s daughter and preserve Arnold’s belief in miracles. Through doing this, Helga learns the true meaning of Christmas and preserves Arnold’s good heart and positive outlook. Arnold has sacrificed things too in order to make Helga happy.




By sacrificing her brand new snow boots, Helga preserves Arnold's positive world view. Also notice that she is wearing the Cecile dress.


In “Beaned” when he thought that Helga still had amnesia, he sacrificed his reputation and time with his friends in order to make sure Helga was safe and to help Helga regain her memory. He was even going to miss out on a big baseball game in order to make sure Helga got home safely. There are many more examples of sacrifice, but to go into them all would require another post entirely.

Closing Remarks

Overall, the running gags and motifs of this wild pair drives home the idea that they are meant for each other, and that Arnold will one day figure it out. If only The Jungle Movie had been made! *shakes fist* Gah!



Whether or not you believe they are meant for each other, they still have one of the most complex relationships on the show.



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Hi guys,

For those who don’t know, the HA6S (“Hey Arnold!” Sixth Season) Project is a collaborative fan-comic project where we will create fanmade sixth season episodes in comic form.  This project will officially open on July 6, 2009 where adminstrators of this project will release its related urls. 

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